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How the fuck do you meet people being trans?
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Well, if you identify as trans, you meet people just like anybody else. If you're specifically seeking out transfolk, you may have a bit of a problem, as we are just a subset of the population with varied interests and activities. In fact, I'm willing to bet that the majority of transfolk are closeted and thus impossible to find even with the best intentions, but that is a discussion for another time.
There are some LGBT specific groups in any city of note, and you'll find transfolk on the outskirts of most social scenes. I would recommend exploring the kink, goth or punk scenes in your locale if the interests there match your own - these communities have particularly high numbers of visible transfolk due to their outsider natures.
The bar scene is a very targeted thing - you can go to a gay bar to find a gay man, you can go to a dyke bar to meet up with rough and tumble ladies, and you can go to a leather bar to meet interesting people... but none of these guarantee an encounter with transfolk, as we are often looked down upon even in those spaces, and we have none of our own.
Most transwomen don't identify as gay and thus will not be at a gay bar. You might run into some drag queens, crossdressers or transvestites I suppose.
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>>39Well, if you're not above San Francisco, you have a few options. There are kink events dotting the landscape from Berkeley down to Santa Cruz, if that is your thing. If not, all the major cities have LGBT friendly centers.
>>8 I met my gf and love of my life (who is trans) on tgpersonals dot com. Now I've been back to the site recently and it has changed a bit and now resembles a more typical dating site where you have to sign up but it is free! Hope this helps OP.BTW, my gf only goes to gay bars, I can't go cuz I work nights. I'm in Nor Cal too.
Do you guys have a preferred way of approaching your partner about being trans if they don't already know?
Also, similar question in regard to getting them to fuck your ass, particularly in scenarios where the partner is a GG. :/
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Well, I came out to my gf (GG) in, like, November or something. We had been dating for over half a year by that point, and while I loved her, I was starting to feel a sense of loss because I was hiding who I was (this has happened in all of my previous relationships and I didn't want to lose this girl -- but I knew that by telling her, I might lose her anyway, but I needed to take the risk). Basically, I waited until it was just her and me in the house, we sat down, and asked her if she had ever noticed that I'm not like other guys. She said she did and that's what she liked about me...she said there was something about me that she couldn't quite put her finger on and she wished she knew what it was. I told her that I was transgender (specifically, bigender, more female than male). I told her that that's why I wore girls jeans and that I wore panties. She smiled and kissed me and told me that she loves me no matter what. I asked her if it weirded her out or anything and she kind of chuckled and said, "Look at who I hang out with" (her best friend is a lesbian/drab king). For the next couple days, she overthought the whole thing and was worried that I would break up with her for a man (she didn't care if I would have been happier with a man, but she didn't want me to leave her). I assured her that that would never happen. A couple months later, our sex life reinvigorated, we were trying to think of something fun and exciting to do in bed, and I asked her if she had ever heard of pegging. I explained the concept to her and first she said that she loved me and that she would love to try it, but she didn't want to hurt me. She said before we spent any money on a strap-on or feeldoe, she wanted to make sure I liked it, so a couple days later we went to the local toy store and she helped me pick out a vibrator. She also said that she's glad that I brought up the idea to her and would rather have her fuck my ass instead of having someone else do it (she is not into sharing me with anyone, and I love that about her).
Definitely alcohol. I don't think my girlfriend would care too much but I haven't tried all that hard to tell her. When we first met I told her I liked guys too. Turns out I had hooked up with one of her best friends and he gave her a good "recommendation" for me.
I've gotten her to massage my asshole while she was giving me head before but I keep trying her to get a strapon and complete the mission but she won't.
I think woman are lazy though and that would mean putting work into having sex.
seriously you just wrote out the relationship i'm in ... only difference is i'm not bi gender