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Alright so,I've always had the urge to transition but I, as well as others constantly talk me out of it on the basis of my height. I fear that I may be too tall to really "pass". Pretty much I'm just asking for some other opinions here, I know in the end it's always my choice but it wouldn't hurt to have some insight from the actual community. As of now I'm on the better half of 6"5'. I have a fairly feminine figure/ face already but I worry that my height will just sort of "stunt my growth as a woman" :/ Tips, Opinions?
There are plenty of tall girls who aren't supermodels and who look pretty awesome to me.
I don't think your height will negatively affect your transition. If anything, I've heard that estrogen affects the spine curvature in a way that decreases height without affecting posture. I don't know how true that is as the evidence is anecdotal. I think what makes a noticeable difference is possessing a feminine figure and face (like you say you do), so you're already halfway there.
Moreover, what really matters is having confidence enough to consider other people's opinions and just do whatever the hell you want to do and what's best for you (to paraphrase Robert Downey Jr.)
Oh yeah, by reduced height, I mean by 1-2 inches. Not like a whole foot, that'd be peculiar.
Ok so I have been on and off of different forms of estrogen for a period of a year. I originally got a vial of delestrogen which made my skin Amazing and my nipples the size of quarters. Iwent to almost an A cup and then I ran out.After 3 months i bought 30 generic alleesse (don't know correct spelling) which made my skin soft again and turned my nipples pink and perky but then I ran out. This is getting frustrating. What should I get and where? Oh and best bang for my dollar because I don't have a lot.
Try this site.
Ty c: I have been megadosing lately. I cut all meat out of my diet aswell. I wake up and take 8 1000mg flaxseed oil capsules and down them two at a time with soymilk. then I eat a bowl of soymilk and cereal. at lunch i eat a veggie patty which is mostly soy with veggies followed by 4 more flaxseed caps and then after lunch i starr.drinking barefoot sweet red wine. if i manage to finish all the wine and im not too drunk than i drink beer.
I want to make my chest more sensitive and maybe get some growth out of it, but HRT is not an option since I don't want to really become female.Do breast creams work?Anything else?
Okay, so... This is one of the few times I've actually made a topic someplace like this and reached out, because responses from boards like these are usually all over the place, but this place seems pretty awesome, and YourTrainer's thread is full of awesome stuff but honestly it's a bit overwhelming.
I guess I'll start from the beginning. I've flirted with the idea of doing the whole MtF hormones and stuff thing since I was in my mid-teens. I just turned 21 and I now know that I DON'T want to go all the way, and that I DON'T identify as female. At this point though, I think that if I could have starter younger, and been gorgeous by now, that's another story. That being said, I still think about changing my body type and stuff a LOT. I want to be a trap. I'm bisexual, heavily into females, but I really really want to have a more feminine body. I'd love to have a better ass, hips, and do something about that godawful body hair. Maybe a little bit more of a feminine face. The picture I posted (Which I drew, by the way... a sort of fantasy.) should give an idea of what I'm after. Yes, it's an exaggerated, Poju-esque fantasy, but there are plenty of guys I've seen online, some who haven't even taken hormones that I would love to look like. I guess what I'm saying is that my expectations aren't quite that high.
So my question is, should I go on hormones? At this age, I don't really know what to expect from the results. I don't want tits, but I can lose them if other results are awesome (even if that means liposuction), and I'm prepared to deal with emotional stuff if it means pursuing what I want. What I am pretty scared of is size loss when it comes to my cock, as well as erectile disfunction, and difficulty ejaculating. Admittedly I don't know much about this, which is why I'm here, but I'm definitely concerned about sexual performance. I'm more concerned about the pleasure factor as opposed to my size and erectile performance staying the same, but I'm still worried about those, too. At my age, with my wants, it sounds like it isn't worth it, right? And I'm pretty confident no doctor will prescribe anything based on my purely-physical desires. Then again I know there are other ways of getting stuff. That being said, I'm not opposed to surgery, other than not being able to afford it. I also have weight to lose, and in the process have been dabbling with some exercise plans to look more feminine, nothing I've really committed to, yet. I take it this is probably my best course of action, though? I'm mostly just here to try and get some concrete answers about the risks involved in going on hormones for me, at my age, especially compared to potential gains.
Okay, so... Something else I guess I can ask about here. I've completely shaved my body before, and other than get awful, awful razor burn on my legs where I could barely walk, it worked fine. I've also experimented with waxing and have all kindsa stuff for when I get to that point.
One thing I still have a problem with is my facial hair. Immediately after shaving you can still see every dark follicle, even where the skin is totally smooth. I've tried a couple different razors, and several different creams. As far as being a guy goes, I look pretty clean shaven, but I could never, ever pass with my face looking like that.
Shave with and against the grain of the hair.Use foundation to cover up the follices.If it really concerns you then go for laser hair removal, a few sessions (2-3) should be enough to reduce the follicle size and, thus, thickness of hair.
>>955you can use laser to reduce your facial hair by a lot, if you have the right characteristics. (dark coarse hair and light skin). alternatively you can try shaving really closely and then using a foundation makeup with a red tint to cancel out the "blue" that comes from shaven facial hair.
and for your OP, i'm in the same boat as you kinda. i'm trans but not really in the binary. sometimes i like to pass as a girl, sometimes, as a boy. i take hormones so my body is a more physical representation of what i am, which is more of a tomboyish girl than completely girly, but i am definitely not a boy. if that makes sense...
Hi everyone, so I'm currently 17 and really want to start hormones as soon as possible but don't really want to see a doctor and let my parents know about it yet until there are noticeable changes with my body. My main question is where am I able to buy hormones from and what ones should I get? I live in Australia which isn't too keen on the MtF thing so I'd much rather buy online. Thanks.
>>919There's a recommended dosage somewhere. Start with that and use that. They size pills in various sizes because hormones treat various different things (like menopause, for example). Their size is not for your convenience. Find a dosage and take whatever size/amount of pill you need to get that dosage.
As far as where to look that info up, some of the transgender sights have suggested dosages, or dosages people take. Do what they do.
Also get some blood tests. One after the first week, then month maybe. If you can. Otherwise, keep an eye out for changes in your metabolism and whatnot. Hormones can harm your liver.
so what? what does it have to do with my point?
>>921you should always take an estrogen along with an anti androgen.. it might be kind of dangerous to take AA's alone because now you have NO hormones, T or E going in your body which can lead to a loss in bone density among other things..
and for the OP: a typical starting regimen for hormones is 2mg of an estrogen and 100mg of an anti androgen, then raised depending on the results of a blood test for T, E, and FSH. lower starting dosages than that are usually considered conservative
Hi there!One question for the ones not living alone: where do you hide your girly stuff ?I gonna move with my gf, and i don't know what to do of my cardboard boxes full of clothes and stuff :(
Hey Raven,i'm happy for you! Best wishes for that new life :)
And for the records, i've finally told my girlfriend about my situation and she's totally ok with it :pSo now we "play dress up" together and that's pretty cool. No HRT and stuff though, but that's not the plan anyway :)
>>807Thats awesome babe. This is me after 200 days of hormones. :D
>>966wow awesome :3love the hair <3
I'm working on transistioning. Got a bunch of clothes, etc. But i wanna figure out how to make up. any tip? what products should? Also any tip for a more femine figure without hrt yet. As i can not afford it atm
I watch makeup tutorials on youtube for tips. I'd suggest starting with something as simple as the eyebrows, look for an eyebrow shaping guide on youtube (there are plenty). Framing your brows to suit your face makes a noticeable difference and is simple to do.
I would follow what january girl said plus, if you have cash to spare, i would advise you to sit in a mac counter/makeup artist and learn some.
Some of the good products for beginners, i have been told are urban decay and Mac. Also Avene is a good base foundation for all time use , only sold in drugstores in DE. Also I personally prefer bobby brown for a subtle look.
If you want to concentrate on only a few aspects, the as januarygirl said, i would start with eyebrows and eyeliners, followed by camouflage + foundation and cheekbone contourings.
Hope this helps and good luck.
>can afford clothes>cant afford whoremoans
Hey people .. been thinking about trying out crossdressing for a while ... it's been a fetish for a lone while but I have never serously considered it before ..
Been thinking about buying a pair of panties or so, but where could I find a site that sells them? And stuff like maybe, those cute striped stockings that I see everywhere?
any recommendations of specific panties perhaps?
ebay is a pretty good place to check out for any of these things, pretty cheap and afforable
it would appear that i had my first true prostate orgasm
using a vibrating prostate stimulator i ended up finding a spot that put me in a damn near out of body experience
it ended with my body convulsing and it felt as though i was ejaculating over and over again but i was shocked to find that nothing actually came out..absolutely incredible
anyone else experience this?
pic related, this is the toy that was used
god damn, make a video next time
well lets just say i was not dressed nor shaved for the occasion
but it is definitely something i will be revisiting, hopefully, in the near future
Alright, I've looked through the threads around here and some things online. Haven't been able to find any answer. Just, now... How is it possible to get such a clean, cute, smooth asshole? It's the one thing that's eluded me and I don't know how it's attainable. From the couple of people I have talked to, they just "had it" already, and didn't have to do anything.Just, I guess mine is much more colored around the edge, and it's not nearly as smooth. The whole area is nothing like the rest of my ass, and it isn't anything compared to these. How do I get that smooth, clean, inviting asshole I want?
here's the secrect: take low quality pictures of your asshole
Nothing you can do about "pucker" but you can get the dark ring bleached,,,Popular among porn stars.. local salon should do it.. having a dick might make it hard ot find a place that will touch you.. if your in a large metro city NY, TO, Cali your better off than in hoboken
I wonder if these people bleached, or used bidets or something.
is 25 years too late?
I've been seriously considering this for about... 6 years now. Only live once, right? I want to give this a 3 month try or so, but if it's not really going to have an effect, I don't want to waste the money. Most a doctor is going to be involved is for bloodwork and to explain hormone levels, I'll be grabbing meds off ihp.
Souhh, is it worth trying? In the least, I'd appreciate a more feminine body, reduced sex drive/erections, and wouldn't mind loss of muscle/can deal with depression well enough. I've done my research, but my age didn't occur to me just now. Anyone start this late?
I'll use this as a sounding board too, for if/when things get started.
Oh and one more thing, i forgot to mention, after 9-12 months try to go on a lower dosage of cyperoterone acetate. This how most endo would administer androcur.
25 is not too late. I started at 26 and I turned out just fine. I've got a BF, a B-cup, and don't get harassed when I go in public! :P Seriously, if you're 25 it's time to start dealing with this and determine whether you want to transition, because the longer you put it off the higher your chances of having something happen that may hinder your ability to pass, e.g. hair loss. Good luck to you, and just know that if you go for it, it IS worth it, it DOES get better, and you WILL be a qt!
So yeah, just placed the order after much trepidation.
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Gonna do 100/day for 3 days on androcur, with 2mg estrofem
Try that out for a month, see how I feel, and go from there.
Hello, I'm a 20 year old boy, not (yet) a real sissy/tranny, but I want to take some small feminizing steps to come a bit closer to this ideal of mine. :)
So I got an idea: would abstaining from masturbation do any benifit for me? Because I observed for myself, that it makes me feel much better overal and more feminine and increases my desire to be feminine, when I don't masturbate. What about completely substitution of "normal" masturbation with only anal masturbation, i find this idea hot as hell...
But is this not unhealthy, is it not pushing it to far?
I'm sorry for my bad English and chaotic writing, I hope you understand my idea.
Not busting all kinds of nuts actually keeps the testosterone up according to what I've read before here and there. What probably is going on is that since you're more horny, you're more prone to act feminine because that is what turns you on. It's not really unhealthy. That is your thing, and that's how you do it, but you are pushing it too far. In the wrong direction, that is. Keep laying off masturbating mostly regardless of the reason.
>>855Its possible that your sex drive is contributing toward your want to be a trap. Abstaining would therefore keep your want to be a trap stable and consistent. If you want that, abstain.
Anal masturbation gives no real release unless you can orgasm with it, which some people can't. If you do end up orgasming, it will probably have the same effect on your desire for femininity that normal masturbation does.
That being said, try it before you decide. Masturbating is healthy, but you don't need it to be healthy.
Any tips on someone who is new to all of this? I'm 21 and I've only just now let myself accept that this is what I've wanted for a very long time, in the last year and a half or so. From what I've been told, from friends of mine that I've told about my being trans, I'm not off to a bad start just with how my body naturally looks. But I don't know where to go from here, any tips or help would be amazing. I'd do anything for help. I'm so lost in all this.. And of course, if I get the results I'm looking for I'll always post them up here to show them off for you, for helping me~ <3
You don't have to take hormones to feminize your body. There are other things you can do to alter your appearance, laser hair removal being one of them. There are other alternatives that should be explored and undertaken if desired. Please remember that transition isn't just one path that every person strictly follows. Although having HRT does help in feminizing the masculine form.
I use a number of websites to help me out. Here are a few:
The last link redirects you to a yahoo group for self-medicating. Of interest, I've been reading a very good e-book concerning transition, it's especially informative for those considering or just beginning. http://fuxx.us/4dyBuy the e-book! You'll thank me later <_<
Thank you so much! I know hormones arent the ONLY way. I feel from the way i look I already have a SOMEWHAT feminine body, and I feel like they might be the best way. I'm certainly buying the e-book. i'm charging my tablet as I type this so I can buy it on my kindel app. I don't know what I could do to ever repay you for any of this <3
You're very welcome! ^_^
When it comes to research, I find the problem isn't so much to do with finding any information as it is with using the right sources. I hope it helps! And yes, if HRT feels like the right step for you then go for it!
So I've been reading different threads on the self/tips section asking for advice on self-medication, acceptance and other aspects of transition.
Rather than answering each one individually (which is time-consuming if it's the same question), I think this link might be a good start for those of you who don't know where to begin and/or are hopelessly anxious.
Take the time to read each article. Also, reading the Standards of care (SoC) guidelines is another good place to answer any questions you have. Hope it helps!
Voice work is important!
Here's another link for you to enjoy and practice your voice.
Hi! My name is Lexi, and I recently restarted my hrt regime, after many years in the closet, I am finally on the road to being myself, problem is that my confidence in myself and my ability to even crossdress, I feel are horrible. So, I turn to you for advice. Please help.
First, congrats on whoremoans,
>problem is that my confidence in myself and my ability to even crossdress
OP, not all of us were crossdresser before taking mones. if you do not have courage take the andro path. dress androgynously for a couple of months before moving full time.
As for low confidence, I have seen girls become more social and outgoing with hormones and then again i also saw girls who are still socially shy even with hrt. I guess it depends on the individual. But if you want to make a change and go out as yourself soon but scared here are a few tips:
1. Try getting the help of a close female acquaintance.
2. Dress androgynously.
3. try assimilating into local goth hangouts, those folks usually tolerate everyone.
4. Hit off to local fetish scene (though i won't advice it if you are looking for full time)
5. try a bit of camwhoring or, tinychat at some trans/trap oriented rooms and see how the response goes.
http://fuxx.us/4cdThe link is an interesting and enlightening discussion on the use of "herbal medicines" in transition.
Note: I do NOT advocate the use of phytoestrogens as "natural hormones" as the effects are minimal (even at high doses, which can be accompanied by toxicity) and the idea that herbals are safer because they are "natural" is just plainly idiotic.
However, I do promote and suggest that people understand what they are putting into their bodies. So here you go, happy reading.
anyone else experience anal orgasms? ive been playing with a dildo regularly and twice now ive had verryy intense, whole body sorta orgasms with no ejaculation but intense pleasure with my entire body shaking
tryin to think about if i should get a longer or wider dildo to keep this up..i just moved up to a 7 inch that is somewhat thin
either way it is incredible
That's a good one OP. Good luck.
Hello everybody,I'm seeking for serious advice here.Let's begin the story : I'm your typical Alpha male, doing martial art since being 6y/o and always doing manly things like riding motorcycle and drinking alcohol with buddies. However,it's like I don't find my real self. I have this little side who secretly tell me every night that I wish to be a woman. And being endoctrined since so young,I just wake up every morning wiping theses thoughts away. It's like I constantly balance myself between my image as a male and what I wish to be as a woman,very difficult to explain.So,now,I'm 23 and I decided to seriously question myself about that. What do you think I should do? Should I go see a therapist? Any way to find what I really want?
Pic related,it's me cross dressing one year ago. I used a stupid excuse to do it in public and every one told me I was really great. Never be able to do it again since then.
alpha male? not surprising, a fraction of mtfs did overcompensation before taking the path. (Not implying you are mtf or anything)
Well a therapist might be able to help you but don't expect miracles to happen. They are humans and prone to presumptions. A trained therapist can provide you pointers but at the end of the day, the decision will be yours to make. A therapist can never decide for you.
Having mentioned that, ask yourself the question what aspect of you alpha male life you hate and also ask what aspect of you alpha male life can you not carry out when you transition.
Finally ask yourself the question, if you want to go all the way or if you are comfortable with being a girl only for a few hours a week.
Hope this helps.
>>913Thank for your replyWell,you're totally right,the choice is mine. But since I feel a bit like there's two people in me,it's quite difficult to make this choice!Crossdressing only few hours a week is out : For now I'm too much built and muscular to do that without feeling ashamed. If possible,I wanna make a decision before turning 25. So,while I still have time, I really need to focus on that.Anyway,still taking any useful advice!