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How do I tell my cis gf I want to become a woman?
you make sounds using your vocal cords. after that, she will make sounds with her vocal cords, and then you will be without a girlfriend.
If you seriously think she doesn't have a clue, I'd suggest intentionally having a series of conversations that lead up to that bit of information.