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I do experiments to try as many things as possible (trends,looks,food,places,sex,etc.)
a lesbian friend of mine told me to try transgender (I'm a guy) basically try´to go as a close to a straight female as possible (6 months of "feminization" and 6 months of womanhood)
since my sexual preferences are mostly straight she says that I will have to listen to "conditioning" files (which are basically audio files with sugestions on liking men and being femenine)
I'm a little afraid that I won't be able to go back if I try ithas anyone gone full transexual and back without any repercussions?
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Don't listen to these people. They are oversensitive and pathetic, and can't comprehend the situation you're facing.
You're going to transition because you want to try it. Sounds like as good a reason as any, considering how BS most trans reasons sound in a vacuum (think about it).
If you can't detransition (that is, go back to being a man), then what's the problem? If you transition and find you're happier and more comfortable where you are, then haven't you done right by yourself? If not, then detransitioning shouldn't be hard.
If you're worried about commitments you make as a girl that make it hard to detransition, like, say, a job, just plan everything with your eventual detransition in mind.
I have not actually done this before, but I agree with you totally that people should do it. I would do it myself, but I would actually want to stay female.
I just have to make this comment... I wish it only took 6 months for a body to become a woman (Physically not mentally that is... lol) if that were the case I'd be full-time in 2 1/2 months! Though you may be one of the lucky ones who can do that... YMMV
I'm in a similar boat to you OP, basicly, I don't really experience Gender Dysphoria but I'm very aroused and feel very comfortable when I act bi trans and want to transition but not go full-time.
As someone here said, if it feels good why not try it?
I've been crossdressing for years in secret and only now started my herbal feminization treatment. I've become very good at passable crossdressing and this is the first step.
None of my family know or (hopefully) will ever know, they are extremely conservative and religious and I would basicly be an outcast.
The plan is this, the herbal HRT isn't anywhere near as extreme as normal HRT but it does provide breast growth and a more feminine body, as well as other minor feminization features. Curves, and a A/B cup are fairly easy to keep hidden, there are many men who have "male breasts" and they just wear some kind of flattening support or loose shirts, also people won't pay that close attention.
Keep in mind, this will take over a year (up to 2, depending on your age/body/etc.). Make sure to have high exposure to people you DON'T want to know about your transformation, if they are exposed to feminine mannerisms and other body shape changes gradually, they won't think so much of it. It's sudden changes that will shock people.
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Hey guys and gals, just got into cross-dressing and want to get some basic clothes.
However, I am more of a bear than a twink, and girl's/women's clothes do not fit me. Even their XL stuff, which is a 16-17 or so, is skin-tight and not to my liking.
I wear a 48-50 chest, 38-40 waist, and 11-12 socks.
Of course, if it's elastic-y it will help.
My question is: what do these sizes translate over to for female sizes, so I can get the proper-sized women's clothing?
Wal-mart, my preferred store, likely will not carry women's sizes in the male equivalent of XL. But if they do, please tell me which size or size number range I should get, based on my above measurements.
Alternatively, my second question is: Is a sex-shop/adult store a good place to find larger-sized women's clothes? I think it would, since they specialize in that sort of thing.
You can't depend on size labels, gotta take your own measurements:
1 just under the armpits2 chest at maximum3 just below your chest4 waist5 hips at desired waistband position6 relative front crotch7 relative back crotch8 trousers inseam9 trousers outseam
You need at least these, I've taken over 40 myself.
I like to buy clothes through eBay, the better sellers include precise measurements. Commercial sites frequently have size charts. Sannas measure every piece of clothing separately.
>>684True, helpful advice. Thanks. I don't really wear "casual" clothing, just undies and socks and stuff. But I will still take measurements into account.
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i have definitely had some extremely powerful orgasms from anal play and i figure this is a way to possibly take it to another level
the above linked seems like a good option, thoughts?
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bit too rich for my blood, though they look nice..i went with an aneros, so we will see if i end up with this 'super o' orgasms that ive read about
I purchased the helix and the progasm, well worth the money. Even if you don't Experiance the "super O" theyre fantastic toys.
i bought the progasm and it blew my mind
first few times i used it i didnt really get any sensation but with practise it can be really intense
last time i used it i was dripping everywhere and going light headed and just completly loosing myself. Took about a month and a bit of trial and error but well worth it
This is a little long, but the backstory helps.
I haven't crossdressed in about 1.5 years, and I pretty much won't be able to for another 1 1/2, once I get my own place though (without a roommate obviously), probably will all the time. Only in the winter though, because when I crossdress I fully commit and I shave all my body hair, and that would be embarrassing if I did that during the summer.
Anyway, I have a decent collection of clothing right now, but I feel like I should start ordering more, but I really can't because I need to save $$, plus there's a risk of someone seeing the package contents.
So I'm gonna have to wait a while before I order more stuff. However I am worried - there are some really nice things I run into online, and I'm worried the items will be gone in a couple years when I wanna order them. :(
I don't have a lot of experience with buying clothes, but is it hard to find clothes that are years old (pantyhose, corsets, dresses, heels, etc)
>>668There will always be pretty desirable clothing on the web for sale. Always.
Trust that the internet will have something equally nice in two years, because it will. What you want right now may not be available but I assure you it won't be difficult to find something you do want.
To address your actual question, some stores stock seasonally, so you can depend on them restocking this season. But, depending on what store you're looking at the things may still be available.
Stores that cater to transsexuals (which you could possibly be looking at) tend to not restock because their products are niche and don't stay with fashion. Same with other stores that pride themselves on one thing (for example, a corset store or a panty store). These stores will continually stock in a single product, and should always have what you want.
The only stores you really have to worry about are the ones that hold a general supply of fashion, because they tend to have a seasonal stock that changes as the weather does.
Alright, Im kind of nervous but I want to start Cross dressing for my own enjoyment. Not for public. I just need some tips to get started. I can get ahold of panties, stockings, but no bras/girly outfits. AIve always enjoyed shemales/traps (being able to watch multiple videos and bring precum with no stimulation) So please, tips? Really appreciate it.
What kind of tips do you need? A lot of it comes with experience imo, especially getting the right aesthetics (that includes stuff like shaving hair)
Hey everyone, I been on hormones for nearly 7 months now and I haven't notice much growth in my head hair. I was wondering if anyone know of anyway I can encourge my hair to grow?
i am feeling in mood for replying a lot on tranchan today.
What kind of blockers and mones are you on?
If there is no appreciable hair growth then ask you endo to provide you with some dutastride or finastreride supplement, these would prevent hair loss. If need be, you can pester for rogaine. Though i have to say, regaining hair loss is a lost cause, you might gain only a fraction of what is lost even after a year on strict medication regime.
My Hormone blocker is Spironolactone and my hormone is Progynova. I know i'm facing a losing battle and the only way I get my hair back is thorough surgery. But the since I can't afford a hair transplant atmo and regrowing what I can will bring the cost of the transplant down. I'm also trying to get the hair I have left to grow longer. Thanks a lot for replying
girl, you are not alone in this. this is something most girls face, if you can't afford hair transplant get some extensions and avoid sweep back hairstyles. try to have it with bangs from the forehead to the side, it would cover most of the receding hairstyle. it's a common trick.
Hi! I'm new to the site, and haven't found a thread for this, so I thought I'd ask: what makeup, fashion, etc tips would you give to an aspiring trap of color? I've found little to any info on the subject and was COMPLETELY shunned when I made a trip to Sephora.
TL,DR Black Trap Tips
i hear the MAC stores/counters in department stores are great with tips for anyone who wants to learn.
Sistah, i hear you, Been having the same difficult with getting mine done. Went full time for half year without any makeup.
here is what i do these days:
For evening make-up foundation : I go with maC
for day: bobby brown or estee lauder. (estee lauder, a bit darker shade the skin tone conceals all those stubby hairgrowth well enough).
For eyeliners, i would go with black on top and blue crayon liners for lower.
hope this helps
Pic = after learning how to use makeup.
Well, I posted over on CD and was told I was 'not up to par'
Does anyone have any tips at all? I know I need to lose a lot of weight, and I am, slowly. As for hormones, I'm not entirely sure it's what I want, and I'm not sure they would actually do much with my frame. Anyway thanks for any help you can give.
Unless this gets deleted as well -_-;;
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>>566Much better!You're holding yourself a lot better and that's good and it does look like you've lost weight so well done :D
Normally I'd advise against halternecks as they accentuate your shoulders and given our biological genders, we normally have quite broad shoulders and narrow hips. To be fair though your shoulders don't look too imposing in these pictures, but as a rule of thumb - avoid halter necks and spagetti straps and opt for things that cover your shoulders, like wrap around tops. If you look at that dress, it has a flared skirt which will make your hips seem bigger - so well done on that front :)
Make-up wise, you need some practice (I'm rubbish at make-up too, but this much I've worked out). Unfortunately for you, you have quite a masculine jawline, but this can be fixed with good use of contouring powders.Here is a video of a full time transwoman with a similar face shape to you, hopefully it'll help: http://fuxx.us/1g- . Also, good job not using that black lipstick again. As cool as black lipstick is, it's one of those things that really works on some girls and really not on others.
Some make-up practice :)
dresses suck. honesty you can improve appearance by staying away from almost all of them. even when they're color block the colors are flipped against you. even if you wear a dress match it with a top to get the light/dark mix to make hips bigger and shoulders smaller.
the halter top, i agree, does not work. the skirt of the dress is fine. you need to find some unique tops to hide shoulders. i see girls in dolman sleeve tops almost all the time and those might work for you.
tips on shaving thighs, balls, and ass?
Use a gel shaving cream and a good razor. Soak in warm water to help loosen the hair follicles.Try not to go over an area more than once on the thighs or cheeks.
I use veet to remove the hair from my ass, especially in the crack. I used to squat over a mirror though, which worked alright.
As for balls I have yet to find a way to get all the hair. No matter how hard I try I always seem to leave some. So I just get it as close as possible. I actually find it easier to shave my balls when I'm cold and the skin is shriveled. That way the hair sticks out better.
shave down to short hairs with an electric razor, then shave with a venus razor. butt and balls i just use an electric. you have to hover it to trim stuff down. butt is tricky and still perfecting my technique. i found chemicals and wax pretty useless although i've only used them a few times.
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Bi sexual guy, never had gender identity issues as a child, or even as a teen. It's just been like, the last 3 years I've really become interested in transsexual women and think I want to be one too.
I just hate masculinity, I always have acted straight for my family and such but, I don't like body hair, I don't like my muscles, and I just don't like the way my body looks.
My is surprisingly cool about it, she's kind of in shock because she's never seen it coming. Just have always been a normal boy, playing with hotwheels and riding bikes and such. But she has been talking to me alot and has started to create a lot of doubt in my mind.
If I could have anything, I really wish I could be a woman (or at least make my body more feminine, not just dress up) but, I start to wonder if it's not the best thing for me.
I'm going to see a psychiatrist next week to talk about this but in the mean time, I'm still turning it over and over in my head.
Your experience sounds similar to my own. Don't worry about not fitting the often-told trans narrative about knowing from birth. People realize and voice at many different stages in their life.
As to having masculine interests as a child, that doesn't necessarily mean that you have a male gender identity. At a young age, social judgements about what is acceptable for us to do may mean that we never develop our interests in feminine activities. There is nothing wrong with a girl liking to ride bikes, playing with cars, etc and still identifying as a girl. Likewise, with a boy playing house, doing needlepoint, etc and still identifying as a boy.
It sounds like you are in a good place, having both family support and access to professional assistance. Take your time to explore your identity and presentation. It's important to discover what you need to be comfortable with yourself.
Hi, someone looking to dabble into crossdressing just to say i've tried it really, i'm a firm believer in having a very long bucket list and crossing it all off! i have a very slim figure, quite wide hips, and my thighs are fine, my only issue's i've noticed i'll probably have is i have a very male haircut, a metrosexual male haircut, but one none the less :P long fringe, sides and back shaven, i also have fairly broad shoulders, and a very broad square set chin, any advice on how to disguise these features? Chins my main concern :(
Pic very much unrelated :P
Hi, I want to start HRT but I'm too embarrassed to tell my doctor. Does anyone know of something in store or a food you can eat/take? Thanks.
Don't believe anything you hear about herbal supplements working, for most people they're a waste of time. For the few people that they work for, there is likely something else going on. The cost for supplements is going to start around half of the cost for hormones anyway, so you might as well put the money towards the most effective solution.
If you are serious about HRT, go see a gender therapist. If your medical system follows the Standards of Care, you can't be proscribed hormones without a note from a therapist. If you live near a large city, there may be a transgender health clinic or resource center where you can get more information on what you need to do. If you are at college, check for support groups and see what resources are available through the school.
You need to get over your fear of talking to a doctor. If you are too embarrassed to talk to someone while protected by patient privacy protection laws, how are you going to cope with people realizing once the HRT starts to make changes?
I need help, i really wanna cross dress, i get such a thrill from just looking at womens clothing and i really wanna try them on.My problems: 1)Where to i meet Traps and Crossdressers? I really am attracted to cross dressers, where can i go? or anything i can do? 2) As you can see from my picture i am not feminine what so ever, can you tell me what things to do? what can help? How to get cloths. Please Help me
You can start with putting your dick in my mouth and or ass. For starters. Meeee-ow.
As far as meeting goes, put your deets out there and see if you get any bites. ::shrugs:: Works for me.
No need to thank me :P
Hi 2 everyone, im lookin 4 a pic that says how 2 be a trap, its like a pic of a trap with text on the sides
long term lurker and occasion noisemaker, i really need an advice from the girls on mones here. needles vs pills?
i have been given the go-ahead from my endo to do needles. been on pills for more than a year with zero growth. vials prescribed have the same dosage as my pills but it also says 200mg of combination hormones (estrogen+progestone). So does anyone have any idea how the combination mones work? If it serves, the mones are in castor oil (believe this affects the halflife of the injections).
Hey all, I've been with several MTFs, "traps", and transwomen. Its all been good fun, but I'd rather have an actual relationship, or at least a friends with benefits type setup. Is a place like OKCupid good for meeting "traps", or are there better sites?
Yes, I think that this would be your best bet, and maybe even post add on craigslist too, but not in the casual encounters section.
So by pure stroke of luck, I ran across a CD who's DTF, no strings. This would be my first time with a CD. Any tips from CDs here or others with experience?
Not sure s/he'll be down with that. But we'll see!
I found this touching story about a Trap who found her way in life; on a similar note, does anyone know what herb she may have been talking about? My only guess would be soy isoflavones, but I'm not sure.
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I'll elaborate a little bit. (I really should pick a handle for this board.)
So the dress you want is a long spaghetti strap evening gown with split sides and a straight neckline. Pretty much it's just combing through catalogs or online listings for what you want or going to a dress store and asking.
Alternately, similar evening gowns without split sides are a popular prom dress, so you might be able to pick one up second hand and alter it yourself. Google "put side splits in a skirt" for instructions.
Making it yourself should be pretty easy, as it's a very straight forward dress design. I think it would be a fun little project.
>>421thanks though I'm looking for ankle length.>>423yeah, I've combed through hundreds of dresses and the only solution i can find is to make the thing myself. It does seem easy enough with all the straight lines and lack of detail. I report on how that goes from here on out.
my corset!It's been a while since I posted so I'll update a bit.
For the dress, I've gotten a fabric that I believe will work, although I still need to practice on it to make sure I don't mess up horribly and ruin the whole dress.
on the corset, It's working pretty good. It's pretty comfortable to wear when I actually put it on right. on another note though, I'm gonna get another one that doesn't go over the shoulder since it not only leaves large indents on my shoulders and, it makes the threading uneven and hard to get right as you can see in the picture.