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Hi! I'm new to the site, and haven't found a thread for this, so I thought I'd ask: what makeup, fashion, etc tips would you give to an aspiring trap of color? I've found little to any info on the subject and was COMPLETELY shunned when I made a trip to Sephora.
TL,DR Black Trap Tips
i hear the MAC stores/counters in department stores are great with tips for anyone who wants to learn.
Sistah, i hear you, Been having the same difficult with getting mine done. Went full time for half year without any makeup.
here is what i do these days:
For evening make-up foundation : I go with maC
for day: bobby brown or estee lauder. (estee lauder, a bit darker shade the skin tone conceals all those stubby hairgrowth well enough).
For eyeliners, i would go with black on top and blue crayon liners for lower.
hope this helps
Pic = after learning how to use makeup.
Well, I posted over on CD and was told I was 'not up to par'
Does anyone have any tips at all? I know I need to lose a lot of weight, and I am, slowly. As for hormones, I'm not entirely sure it's what I want, and I'm not sure they would actually do much with my frame. Anyway thanks for any help you can give.
Unless this gets deleted as well -_-;;
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>>566Much better!You're holding yourself a lot better and that's good and it does look like you've lost weight so well done :D
Normally I'd advise against halternecks as they accentuate your shoulders and given our biological genders, we normally have quite broad shoulders and narrow hips. To be fair though your shoulders don't look too imposing in these pictures, but as a rule of thumb - avoid halter necks and spagetti straps and opt for things that cover your shoulders, like wrap around tops. If you look at that dress, it has a flared skirt which will make your hips seem bigger - so well done on that front :)
Make-up wise, you need some practice (I'm rubbish at make-up too, but this much I've worked out). Unfortunately for you, you have quite a masculine jawline, but this can be fixed with good use of contouring powders.Here is a video of a full time transwoman with a similar face shape to you, hopefully it'll help: http://fuxx.us/1g- . Also, good job not using that black lipstick again. As cool as black lipstick is, it's one of those things that really works on some girls and really not on others.
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Some make-up practice :)
dresses suck. honesty you can improve appearance by staying away from almost all of them. even when they're color block the colors are flipped against you. even if you wear a dress match it with a top to get the light/dark mix to make hips bigger and shoulders smaller.
the halter top, i agree, does not work. the skirt of the dress is fine. you need to find some unique tops to hide shoulders. i see girls in dolman sleeve tops almost all the time and those might work for you.
tips on shaving thighs, balls, and ass?
Use a gel shaving cream and a good razor. Soak in warm water to help loosen the hair follicles.Try not to go over an area more than once on the thighs or cheeks.
I use veet to remove the hair from my ass, especially in the crack. I used to squat over a mirror though, which worked alright.
As for balls I have yet to find a way to get all the hair. No matter how hard I try I always seem to leave some. So I just get it as close as possible. I actually find it easier to shave my balls when I'm cold and the skin is shriveled. That way the hair sticks out better.
shave down to short hairs with an electric razor, then shave with a venus razor. butt and balls i just use an electric. you have to hover it to trim stuff down. butt is tricky and still perfecting my technique. i found chemicals and wax pretty useless although i've only used them a few times.
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Bi sexual guy, never had gender identity issues as a child, or even as a teen. It's just been like, the last 3 years I've really become interested in transsexual women and think I want to be one too.
I just hate masculinity, I always have acted straight for my family and such but, I don't like body hair, I don't like my muscles, and I just don't like the way my body looks.
My is surprisingly cool about it, she's kind of in shock because she's never seen it coming. Just have always been a normal boy, playing with hotwheels and riding bikes and such. But she has been talking to me alot and has started to create a lot of doubt in my mind.
If I could have anything, I really wish I could be a woman (or at least make my body more feminine, not just dress up) but, I start to wonder if it's not the best thing for me.
I'm going to see a psychiatrist next week to talk about this but in the mean time, I'm still turning it over and over in my head.
Your experience sounds similar to my own. Don't worry about not fitting the often-told trans narrative about knowing from birth. People realize and voice at many different stages in their life.
As to having masculine interests as a child, that doesn't necessarily mean that you have a male gender identity. At a young age, social judgements about what is acceptable for us to do may mean that we never develop our interests in feminine activities. There is nothing wrong with a girl liking to ride bikes, playing with cars, etc and still identifying as a girl. Likewise, with a boy playing house, doing needlepoint, etc and still identifying as a boy.
It sounds like you are in a good place, having both family support and access to professional assistance. Take your time to explore your identity and presentation. It's important to discover what you need to be comfortable with yourself.
Hi, someone looking to dabble into crossdressing just to say i've tried it really, i'm a firm believer in having a very long bucket list and crossing it all off! i have a very slim figure, quite wide hips, and my thighs are fine, my only issue's i've noticed i'll probably have is i have a very male haircut, a metrosexual male haircut, but one none the less :P long fringe, sides and back shaven, i also have fairly broad shoulders, and a very broad square set chin, any advice on how to disguise these features? Chins my main concern :(
Pic very much unrelated :P
Hi, I want to start HRT but I'm too embarrassed to tell my doctor. Does anyone know of something in store or a food you can eat/take? Thanks.
Don't believe anything you hear about herbal supplements working, for most people they're a waste of time. For the few people that they work for, there is likely something else going on. The cost for supplements is going to start around half of the cost for hormones anyway, so you might as well put the money towards the most effective solution.
If you are serious about HRT, go see a gender therapist. If your medical system follows the Standards of Care, you can't be proscribed hormones without a note from a therapist. If you live near a large city, there may be a transgender health clinic or resource center where you can get more information on what you need to do. If you are at college, check for support groups and see what resources are available through the school.
You need to get over your fear of talking to a doctor. If you are too embarrassed to talk to someone while protected by patient privacy protection laws, how are you going to cope with people realizing once the HRT starts to make changes?
I need help, i really wanna cross dress, i get such a thrill from just looking at womens clothing and i really wanna try them on.My problems: 1)Where to i meet Traps and Crossdressers? I really am attracted to cross dressers, where can i go? or anything i can do? 2) As you can see from my picture i am not feminine what so ever, can you tell me what things to do? what can help? How to get cloths. Please Help me
You can start with putting your dick in my mouth and or ass. For starters. Meeee-ow.
As far as meeting goes, put your deets out there and see if you get any bites. ::shrugs:: Works for me.
No need to thank me :P
Hi 2 everyone, im lookin 4 a pic that says how 2 be a trap, its like a pic of a trap with text on the sides
long term lurker and occasion noisemaker, i really need an advice from the girls on mones here. needles vs pills?
i have been given the go-ahead from my endo to do needles. been on pills for more than a year with zero growth. vials prescribed have the same dosage as my pills but it also says 200mg of combination hormones (estrogen+progestone). So does anyone have any idea how the combination mones work? If it serves, the mones are in castor oil (believe this affects the halflife of the injections).
Hey all, I've been with several MTFs, "traps", and transwomen. Its all been good fun, but I'd rather have an actual relationship, or at least a friends with benefits type setup. Is a place like OKCupid good for meeting "traps", or are there better sites?
Yes, I think that this would be your best bet, and maybe even post add on craigslist too, but not in the casual encounters section.
So by pure stroke of luck, I ran across a CD who's DTF, no strings. This would be my first time with a CD. Any tips from CDs here or others with experience?
Not sure s/he'll be down with that. But we'll see!
I found this touching story about a Trap who found her way in life; on a similar note, does anyone know what herb she may have been talking about? My only guess would be soy isoflavones, but I'm not sure.
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I'll elaborate a little bit. (I really should pick a handle for this board.)
So the dress you want is a long spaghetti strap evening gown with split sides and a straight neckline. Pretty much it's just combing through catalogs or online listings for what you want or going to a dress store and asking.
Alternately, similar evening gowns without split sides are a popular prom dress, so you might be able to pick one up second hand and alter it yourself. Google "put side splits in a skirt" for instructions.
Making it yourself should be pretty easy, as it's a very straight forward dress design. I think it would be a fun little project.
>>421thanks though I'm looking for ankle length.>>423yeah, I've combed through hundreds of dresses and the only solution i can find is to make the thing myself. It does seem easy enough with all the straight lines and lack of detail. I report on how that goes from here on out.
my corset!It's been a while since I posted so I'll update a bit.
For the dress, I've gotten a fabric that I believe will work, although I still need to practice on it to make sure I don't mess up horribly and ruin the whole dress.
on the corset, It's working pretty good. It's pretty comfortable to wear when I actually put it on right. on another note though, I'm gonna get another one that doesn't go over the shoulder since it not only leaves large indents on my shoulders and, it makes the threading uneven and hard to get right as you can see in the picture.
I have a bit of a dilemma: I'm in a relationship with another guy (I'm bi) and I want to try cross dressing. I'm not sure how to broach the subject with him though since he prides me on my, "hypermasculinity" as he calls it. He enjoys seeing me do "manly" things.
What should I do?
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>>230It's call "10 Things to do While I'm Still a Boy" and it's really great you can find it here : http://fuxx.us/nlWith a lot of other mangas with crossdressers or transgenders (this manga contain porn but most of them don't).
Thanks. I'll have to keep an eye on that scanlation group.
I'm stuck in the same boat honey, my bf always tells me I'm a man. I love him and all but every time he praises my masculinity I die a little inside, hopping he never find out I want to transition.
If anyone has any funny stories or random questions email them to me so I can use them for my youtube channel. clownfishlover0104at gmail
Hi, I'm trying to become a trap, I've read through this entire board for tips on everything but one thing I didn't see was how to properly maintain your anus for sex, is there a tutorial on cleaning internally?
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>>484 Ah. beat me to it. lol
Any idea what is good for a sore hole? I got stretched a little too hard by my boyfriend.
Like any muscle that needs stretch out b4 a work out. Hemorrhoid cooling cream might work to cool your tushie muscle for a lil.
where do you folks buy dildos online? I'd like something not too big since im newer to anal play, but something with a suction cup so that I can ride it
realistic or not doesnt matter, but flexible is prolly good
any links? of course discrete packaging is a must
put a picture to give an example, and of course id look for something on the smaller side
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I've bought a bunch of stuff from http://fuxx.us/11n including some very nice glass dildos. Prices are good, though shipping is slow (but free).
I bought a dildo and some buttplug-pack with 3 sizes (small, medium, big). As a package it was about ?30, but I can't seem to fit more in my ass then just the small and medium buttplug. The dildo I bought turned out to be a 9-inch dick. I doubt it'll ever fit.
Any tips on stretching my hole? Simply by doing it alot it'll stretch eventually? Or is there some secret methode I don't know off?
Pic related: It's the dildo I bought.
>>472 You just have to take your time and let your hole loosen gradually. You won't be able to take that big thing for a while.
My tips would be to make sure the room is really warm, the dildo or plug is warm (run it under some hot water), and use lots of lube. Take it slow until your hole is very warmed up.
Another thing that helps is sniffing poppers (i.e. Rush. Amyl nitrite). But not everyone is into that. :)
So. Odd question. I wish to transition, not completely from male to female due to massive fear or things that are sharp and slice-y, but to the point where I have the feminine quality I have before I was 18.
Does anyone have any tips on how to do so, hormones/blockers, places to get on the cheap w/o script, etc?
Ever heard of ADC or IHP?
You can get them at inhouse pharmacy or all day chemist. Though I personally use IHP and so do many other trans people that I meet ^.^
What is the best way to loose body hair? What long term options do I have other than hormones? I am 27. Please give me tips, I hate of shaving all over all ....day every!!! Lazer is not my cup as my skin tone as little tanned and I read it only works on fair skin!!
Try waxing or sugaring.
Your only other real option for long-term removal is electrolysis.