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ATTENTION!Anyone starting out, trying to get rid of the hair on your body. DO NOT USE THIS ON YOUR BALLS REGION!
Very serious. It fucking hurts. chemical burns aren't nice. It drew blood, especialy around stretchmarks, and i'm missing about 4 square inches of the top layer of my skin on my left thigh by my balls. Also, if you make this mistake, DON'T immediatly apply lotion. It just makes the pain worse.
Fuuuuuck. That's terrible.I was JUST about to buy the regular Nair Cream for use pretty much everywhere...Have you tried other creams or other Nair products? Do you do know of any safe to use on the balls?Please post back and let us know!
>>879 Hey, I've used creams before they do work ok tbh though you have to use a fair amount and on top of that most creams directly tell you to not use them anywhere in the crotchal region :3 I reccomend shaving for down there :P I know people have said it time and time again on here, I don't really reccomend creams, good for hard to reach areas but doesnt really save time and I felt like shaving left my legs smoother :3
I've been working on appearing like a girl when I go out with my friends (we go to more TG-safe places for now, like gay bars), but I still feel like I'm obvious. I'm not sure if it's just the fact that I instinctively know what I look like therefore I just look like me with make up and girls' clothes on or if I'm missing something. I want to hone in on what I AM missing. I know I don't look as feminine as I can, I think I have a decent canvas to work with (face and bodywise), I just don't know what I'm missing to take it to a really convincing level.
What I do know:-- Need thinner eyebrows-- Voice, not deep, but still an instant tell-- More suitable makeup (my girlfriends are helping me out with this)-- More work on my eyes, I don't know what though, falsies?
I have more pictures in a thread in /cam/cross-dressing/ for reference.
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Thanks Tess for the advice! I've been thinking about maybe doing a video journal or something to go over it. Especially with me working on my voice as I think I might have something right going here with that.
I'm curious about meds because I want to start them soon, but I have a lot going on right now in my life. I have a fiance, two part-time jobs and 5 graduate level classes! lol
Also, I've always had kinda-boobs my whole life as well as a quasi-hourglass body shape (I think the actual term is "spoon", meaning I don't have the bust to be an hourglass body type) and I always felt like me being a boy was "wrong" so I feel like I'm going in the right direction and doing the right thing. I do sometimes worry that my friends that I love will react to me differently as a girl (a la the phrase "girls hate girls"). But at the same time, right now, I have their full support so I guess there's not too much to worry about there. It's still a concern as they're what keeps me through this.
Ahh well it's nice just to talk about it.
I'm just starting voice training, which is gonna be hard for me (my natural F0 is about 80-100Hz and I have bad range). On the other hand, I'm a linguist specializing in phonetics, so at least I have good control over my resonance (which more or less maps to phonation type).
Also, I'm about to get a real job that pays well, so I'm going to start getting my facial hair removed once I have money coming in.
It's actually kind of funny about female friends, since my closest ones definitely don't tend to have female friends, but we all get along really well. On the other hand, we all have some strongly butch tendencies...
If you want to chat or whatever, email me or look me up on skype!
I'm curious. Is anyone interested in tranny history?
Stonewall was back in the late 1960s. This was a gay bar in NYC that cops decided to pounce upon. One procedure in the raid was described as follows in Wikipedia:
"Standard procedure was to line up the patrons, check their identification, and have female police officers take customers dressed as women to the bathroom to verify their sex, upon which any men dressed as women would be arrested. Those dressed as women that night refused to go with the officers. Men in line began to refuse to produce their identification. The police decided to take everyone present to the police station, after separating those cross-dressing in a room in the back of the bar. Maria Ritter, who was known as Steve to her family, recalled, "My biggest fear was that I would get arrested. My second biggest fear was that my picture would be in a newspaper or on a television report in my mother's dress!" Both patrons and police recalled that a sense of discomfort spread very quickly, spurred by police who began to assault some of the lesbians by "feeling some of them up inappropriately" while frisking them."
The gay people proceeded to make fun of the police, and then a butch lesbian started resisting arrest several times. A cop supposedly whacked her on the head, whereupon she told the crowd to "do something", so they did something.
One absolutely does have interest, thank you for posting this.
The Stonewall Riots are super important to not just T's but the LGBQ folks as well.I love Christopher St!!! Bongs, leather, bars, what's not to love.
any suggestions on an outfit that could actually be worn outside?
the first thing i bought is a slutty bedroom outfit but id like something that covers my chest and arms since those areas are not currently shaved
perhaps some sort of skirt and longsleeve shirt? unfortunately i have no taste and experience and have no idea where to begin
The way I tend to go about it, it depends on your personal taste AND your body type.
I my body shape is mostly square but I have wide shoulders, so I prefer to wear things that won't exaggerate shoulders, and help give the appearance of hips. Also, I'm 5'6''
One dress I have that I absolutely love is a kind of retro-looking blue thing from Converse, with 3/4 sleeves and it ties at the waist.
I personally wouldn't wear something like what you posted, but thats because it doesn't have a waist, and you may want something that does, or something you could wear a belt with.
BELTS GURL, get 'em.What you posted + a waist belt would be perfect because it flares outwards as it goes down, so it gives the effect of "hips". Also the empire waist (right below cha tits) snugs in to help make more of an hourglass. That plus a belt, parfait.It does depend on body shape and proportion though... cis girls have to work with it, and there are lots of guides out there for hiding whachu got and maxin' whachu not... got... don't have... yeah.
tips on going smooth and what to tell the current girlfriend?
im thinking ill try telling her that its for her enjoyment and see if she just goes along with it
not going completely smooth but gonna try upper thighs, butt, and crotch area
any other tips or success stories?
by the way thanks for the person who posted the guide to a sugar hair removing paste, made it last night and tried a small piece on my leg and it works wonders
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nice advice kemica, will try it with hidden parts first
and let me just add that the hair removal bit hurts like hell, not sure why i didnt think about that, when getting to the more dense areas especially the public area
might just skip it and shave there though i bet ripping the hair out would be that much smoother
ill see what she says this weekend when i surprise her with smooth thighs, pubic area, and a smooth butt..hopefully it goes well after the initial shock
also, any tips for shaving closer to the hole area? how do you do it? by touch? or do you get a mirror or something?
does she know youre a cd/trap at all?
im sure such questions have been asked before but i cant find em at the moment
mostly into traps and cds but have recently begun to wonder what i might look like in a pair of panties...where should i buy em? dont want to do it in person and need anonymous packaging from the store
also, no idea what size to get
im somewhat slim, 5'8, 150lbs, with a size 32 waist
heres a size chart http://fuxx.us/charti buy from lane bryant because im bigger and the only way to tell thats where its from is if someone looked at the shipping label. if your super worried go with ebay then you can ask for it to be discrete.
I'm recently started to come to the conclusion that after a few years of cross dressing that I think I wish to seek information about transitioning from mtf. I'm in Canada and I'm not sure where to start for getting either medical help so i can acquire hormones or whatever is the more logical choice for a 21 year old.
Any Info/Advice/help would be greatly appreciated! :)
Also, should i post this on /ts also?
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>>654Do you have any advice on how to find a good therapist? What I should be looking for? I've google searched and found some in my area. I called two different offices and left messages but I never heard back from them.
Well the point is not to find just any therapist but find one who is not a gatekeeper.
Personally, i am in university and i went to the psychologist there and told her i need a therapist who would issue GID without any hassle. Based on that she filtered 4 names and then i crosschecked it with my local support group and took only those names that overlapped.
If you are stuck up in some city with no such access or support groups. My advice would be to try the following:
>>725 I guess this works for me as well, just havent had the time (and balls ) to go find a LGB group in the city.
Okay, I'm a fairly closeted crossdresser. Infact, I haven't told anyone and aim to keep it that way. However, recently I have been wanting to shave my body hair, specifically my legs and underarms. I'm worried about what people at school will think however. What should I do?
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If they ask you why you shave your legs, ask them why they DON'T shave theirs. Then proceed to tell of the great benefits, like awesome smoothness.
When I was still living with my dad I only shaved areas that he wouldn't see. I wore pants all the time so it wasn't that bad. Only time I was too scared to shave my legs was during the summer months when I might have to go swimming or something.
If you're really worried what people will think, just wear long pants and a t-shirt all the time. That is unless you live in a hot climate then you can still do it, but it will get... lost my train of thought low blood sugar and all think I made my point though. Oh yea people generally wont notice and if they do then something something something.
Okay so generally I've considered trap-ish-ness to be a fetish of mine and a personal goal (to be a trap), but I don't really understand people who say they want to be with a trap.
Chasers is what transgender people call them. People attracted to the penis in a transwoman. Generally the word has a negative connotation because a chaser is considered to like said transwoman for her body, not her personality or presence (things you, in my opinion, need to be attracted to for a healthy relationship).
I don't understand the stigma or motivation behind feeling attracted to a transperson. They want to be accepted as males or females most of the time, so why does anyone differentiate? Traditionally attraction is based off of "the most female" and "the most male", so why is there a different standard for attractiveness, especially in the non-sexual way?
tl;dr:How can you be attracted to a trap if its just a female with a dick? Why do mos trans people dislike those who are attracted to traps?
FYI, different people define the word chaser differently.
I am attracted to transsexuals, namely because I'm bisexual and don't care what my partner has in his or her pants.
I can't speak for other trans peeps but I'm not a fan of people who want to be with me just for sex while being ashamed of me in every other aspect of a relationship.(which is how I define a chaser) I'm not a cum dumpster just to be humped and dumped.
Someone who respects me enough to do the whole relationship bit isn't a chaser to me. Although I know some people who would disagree with me with my definition.
to most trans people, anyone who wants to fuck a tranny is a chaser. it's stupid. i want to fuck someone because i want to fuck someone, no other reason.
It'd be cute teasing their penises and calling them sissies in a playful manner.
Also, dominating them would feel quite powerful, it might feel as though you're feminising them and maybe you really are.
I'm sure there's a number of reasons. One things for sure, a trap has their charms and can certainly be preferable over girls. Eh, this thread is pretty old, I just felt like saying this.
Looking for some help for taking measurements, what all should i measure for buying panties, bras, chemisole, especially for body shapers, and of course dress and shoe size. Also looking for help with body hair, i tried shaving in a bubble bath after nairing most of the hair off; i used a mens razor. Being hairless was nice while i was in the bath but after that it was pure torture until all my body hair grew back and am half middle eastern so i have a lot of hair.
well the measure for panties and bras depend on you region. i live in europe and sometime travel to UK so i know my german size is 34 and uk i go for 6-8.
for bras, take measurement 1.5 inches below you nipple. (i am assuming you have no breast} if you want cleave just reduce the measured length by 3-5 cms. (for bras)
For panties i normally buy two with one slighly smaller than the one i wear outside (the inner one is for hiding). For the proper measurement for panties, once go around your hip and once around you butt and then take your choice, i usually go for the hip.
As for shaving, if you are shaving only for those special days or you want hairless body in general? If you want in general, my advice is to use nair for the first day and then use mechanical epilator (silky panasonic is what i prefer) once in every two or three days before bath.
after epilation take bath and use allovera body lotion to calm the rashes. also remember to exfoliate the skin properly while bathing to prevent ingrown hair. This doesnot immediately leave you with a silky smooth skin but over a period of time reduces the thickness and density of hair growth.
I got a tip for anyone in Springfield IL Move the hell away. This is the worst place to find traps
Need parts for time machine. Lightning rods and flux capacitor needed. Just discovered traps and now I am 38 and too damn old to find them lol
Didnt get the time machine but I did meet a trap...I was too damn nervous to do more than smile lol Taking her our on the boat and to dinner on Sat..Perhaps I was to hasty thinking I was too old. So here is my tip...Dont give up on what you want.
Hey guys, I just wanted to ask for some advice.
Over the last few weeks I have discovered the amazing world of traps, and have started fapping to it, although for me it's started some bizarre mental patterns, and I would really appreciate some assistance through this.
I'm not gay, and I've never been interested in guys. I've always found myself to be kind of... pretty, rather than hot, or something like that, and people always called me gay, faggot, etc etc for having long hair and being feminine. I always left it up to just being me. Nowadays I've found that there are people like me around who feel feminine and cute, and really thrive on it.
I've been starting to kind of... enjoy making myself actually look pretty, rather than just be casual and try to be normal. I felt really awkward and nervous but I shaved most of the hair off my body a few days ago and tried some makeup today, and it made me feel really... good in a way. Really worried, but I felt like maybe I can express myself.
I don't know myself anymore, I used to be 100% set on what I liked, wanted, and everything, but suddenly my world has been turned upside down, and I'm trying all these new things.
protip: yer a homobut that doesn't mean you're gay, it just means you're bi, since you seem to like pussy as well.
to answer your other question: cross dress all you want. if you get really good at it, you could try passing off as a woman.
unless you're in some shitty hick town, nobody will care that you like to cross dress. many women even enjoy dressing up their friends/boyfriends.
long story short: make yourself pretty and have fun.
You don't need to be gay to be a cd/trans.
It's confusing at first if you're heterosexual and into crossdressing. The best way I can explain it is that guys are never given the chance to feel pretty in our society, and a lot of guys quite enjoy it if they choose to explore it. It's totally normal.
I've CD'd for like most of my life, experimented with guys a little bit. In my experience the sex was awesome (I dated several TS girls, I <3 dick) but there was literally no attraction on a physical level.
So yeah I went back to dating cis girls, and like two months ago I came out to my current GF who I live with. She knew I had a fetish and she was kind of drilling me about it, but I was so secretive/nervous about telling her that she thought it was something super gross like scat or something. Well I said fuck it one night and came out to her.
At first she was like "well I'm not into crossdressers, but if it makes you happy I'll try it," well that sure lasted long. I shaved the next day and after seeing me dressed up she couldn't keep herself off of me. Like literally. She's more into it than I am. I'm into forced fem and I doubt she even knows what that is, but she's totally making all of my fantasies come true. It's awesome. She gets mad when I don't keep my nails painted. I always have to wear girl clothes around the house, and panties/stockings/etc under my clothes all the time. It's way hotter when the person making you do that isn't consciously aware that it's a fetish.
anybody know what happened to the old #cd, on irc.420chan?
it no longer exists
here is some kate moss for your troubles...
>>463^ 1000 times.
We contemplate restarting such a community, but will smite it hard if everyone decides "Oh, I'm a girl now so I'll be as dramatic as possible!"
It will never happen on 420chan IRC again and we are KoS there. We shall idle in irc -dot- devhax -dot- com #cd and see what happens.
or you can use your brain and get on http://fuxx.us/irc #tranchan
>>728Did not realize there was a local channel, thank fuck, I hate working.
I have been fapping to girls with dicks for as long as I can remember and it has made me question my sexuality many times.
My question is how would I go about becoming a transgendered female without people knowing about? I feel I have the body to do it. I could get some boobs and I already have a booty. I have a large family and quite a few tattoos that would be recognizable is someone saw it.
If it's impossible, I understand that. I always assume that most traps don't have siblings, so it's easier for them.
Well thats an interesting question. You're asking how to change from male to female without anyone knowing? I hope you understand that to be male or female is to have people know (or think) you are male or female.
You like, want to have the body of a female but continue life normally as a male? Take hormones and Testosterone blockers.
You want to transition but stay male for you family and friends? Take hormoes and testosterone blockers, and live as female, but continue normal interactions with your family and friends as a male.
If you do this I suggest you refrain from inviting family to your home.
I just posted this in the other thread, I hope this helps you too (it's basicly what I'm doing):
a few topics...#1 peurera mifrica, anyone have any experience?
#2 everyone's favorite way of keeping hair gone & skin smoooooth? :D
I tried pueraria mirifica at high doses, it sort of worked. but they're highly toxic and not for long term usage.
I tried it for 3 months, stopped, and became more masculine very rapidly in less then a year's time because I couldn't get on real hormones during that time
so don't do it
Also a crushing depression after I stopped which has been escalating more and more each passing month
I've heard people have great success with Peurera Mifrica, and it has been proven to have some powerful phytoestrogens in it - some almost identical to medicinal ones.
However, you can't use it on it's own and have a great effect.
You have to combine it with Saw Palmetto, Fenugreek, Wild Yam, basicly anything that will kill off all your testerone.
Diet is very important when taking supplements. Avoid red meat, eat high soy diet, eat a balanced diet (but avoid fructose), these are big pills full of highly extracted compounds. Taking too much in one day, or in one month, can make you sick because your liver will suffer.
The trick is to take PM 3 weeks on and 1 week off to give your liver a break. Also GRADUALLY increase your dosage, don't rush into maximum dosages, it won't help you get there any faster. Check out this routine:http://fuxx.us/1rm
I do experiments to try as many things as possible (trends,looks,food,places,sex,etc.)
a lesbian friend of mine told me to try transgender (I'm a guy) basically try´to go as a close to a straight female as possible (6 months of "feminization" and 6 months of womanhood)
since my sexual preferences are mostly straight she says that I will have to listen to "conditioning" files (which are basically audio files with sugestions on liking men and being femenine)
I'm a little afraid that I won't be able to go back if I try ithas anyone gone full transexual and back without any repercussions?
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Don't listen to these people. They are oversensitive and pathetic, and can't comprehend the situation you're facing.
You're going to transition because you want to try it. Sounds like as good a reason as any, considering how BS most trans reasons sound in a vacuum (think about it).
If you can't detransition (that is, go back to being a man), then what's the problem? If you transition and find you're happier and more comfortable where you are, then haven't you done right by yourself? If not, then detransitioning shouldn't be hard.
If you're worried about commitments you make as a girl that make it hard to detransition, like, say, a job, just plan everything with your eventual detransition in mind.
I have not actually done this before, but I agree with you totally that people should do it. I would do it myself, but I would actually want to stay female.
I just have to make this comment... I wish it only took 6 months for a body to become a woman (Physically not mentally that is... lol) if that were the case I'd be full-time in 2 1/2 months! Though you may be one of the lucky ones who can do that... YMMV
I'm in a similar boat to you OP, basicly, I don't really experience Gender Dysphoria but I'm very aroused and feel very comfortable when I act bi trans and want to transition but not go full-time.
As someone here said, if it feels good why not try it?
I've been crossdressing for years in secret and only now started my herbal feminization treatment. I've become very good at passable crossdressing and this is the first step.
None of my family know or (hopefully) will ever know, they are extremely conservative and religious and I would basicly be an outcast.
The plan is this, the herbal HRT isn't anywhere near as extreme as normal HRT but it does provide breast growth and a more feminine body, as well as other minor feminization features. Curves, and a A/B cup are fairly easy to keep hidden, there are many men who have "male breasts" and they just wear some kind of flattening support or loose shirts, also people won't pay that close attention.
Keep in mind, this will take over a year (up to 2, depending on your age/body/etc.). Make sure to have high exposure to people you DON'T want to know about your transformation, if they are exposed to feminine mannerisms and other body shape changes gradually, they won't think so much of it. It's sudden changes that will shock people.
Hey guys and gals, just got into cross-dressing and want to get some basic clothes.
However, I am more of a bear than a twink, and girl's/women's clothes do not fit me. Even their XL stuff, which is a 16-17 or so, is skin-tight and not to my liking.
I wear a 48-50 chest, 38-40 waist, and 11-12 socks.
Of course, if it's elastic-y it will help.
My question is: what do these sizes translate over to for female sizes, so I can get the proper-sized women's clothing?
Wal-mart, my preferred store, likely will not carry women's sizes in the male equivalent of XL. But if they do, please tell me which size or size number range I should get, based on my above measurements.
Alternatively, my second question is: Is a sex-shop/adult store a good place to find larger-sized women's clothes? I think it would, since they specialize in that sort of thing.
You can't depend on size labels, gotta take your own measurements:
1 just under the armpits2 chest at maximum3 just below your chest4 waist5 hips at desired waistband position6 relative front crotch7 relative back crotch8 trousers inseam9 trousers outseam
You need at least these, I've taken over 40 myself.
I like to buy clothes through eBay, the better sellers include precise measurements. Commercial sites frequently have size charts. Sannas measure every piece of clothing separately.
>>684True, helpful advice. Thanks. I don't really wear "casual" clothing, just undies and socks and stuff. But I will still take measurements into account.