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I'm recently started to come to the conclusion that after a few years of cross dressing that I think I wish to seek information about transitioning from mtf. I'm in Canada and I'm not sure where to start for getting either medical help so i can acquire hormones or whatever is the more logical choice for a 21 year old.
Any Info/Advice/help would be greatly appreciated! :)
Also, should i post this on /ts also?
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>>654Do you have any advice on how to find a good therapist? What I should be looking for? I've google searched and found some in my area. I called two different offices and left messages but I never heard back from them.
Well the point is not to find just any therapist but find one who is not a gatekeeper.
Personally, i am in university and i went to the psychologist there and told her i need a therapist who would issue GID without any hassle. Based on that she filtered 4 names and then i crosschecked it with my local support group and took only those names that overlapped.
If you are stuck up in some city with no such access or support groups. My advice would be to try the following:
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>>725 I guess this works for me as well, just havent had the time (and balls ) to go find a LGB group in the city.
Okay, I'm a fairly closeted crossdresser. Infact, I haven't told anyone and aim to keep it that way. However, recently I have been wanting to shave my body hair, specifically my legs and underarms. I'm worried about what people at school will think however. What should I do?
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If they ask you why you shave your legs, ask them why they DON'T shave theirs. Then proceed to tell of the great benefits, like awesome smoothness.
When I was still living with my dad I only shaved areas that he wouldn't see. I wore pants all the time so it wasn't that bad. Only time I was too scared to shave my legs was during the summer months when I might have to go swimming or something.
If you're really worried what people will think, just wear long pants and a t-shirt all the time. That is unless you live in a hot climate then you can still do it, but it will get... lost my train of thought low blood sugar and all think I made my point though. Oh yea people generally wont notice and if they do then something something something.
Okay so generally I've considered trap-ish-ness to be a fetish of mine and a personal goal (to be a trap), but I don't really understand people who say they want to be with a trap.
Chasers is what transgender people call them. People attracted to the penis in a transwoman. Generally the word has a negative connotation because a chaser is considered to like said transwoman for her body, not her personality or presence (things you, in my opinion, need to be attracted to for a healthy relationship).
I don't understand the stigma or motivation behind feeling attracted to a transperson. They want to be accepted as males or females most of the time, so why does anyone differentiate? Traditionally attraction is based off of "the most female" and "the most male", so why is there a different standard for attractiveness, especially in the non-sexual way?
tl;dr:How can you be attracted to a trap if its just a female with a dick? Why do mos trans people dislike those who are attracted to traps?
FYI, different people define the word chaser differently.
I am attracted to transsexuals, namely because I'm bisexual and don't care what my partner has in his or her pants.
I can't speak for other trans peeps but I'm not a fan of people who want to be with me just for sex while being ashamed of me in every other aspect of a relationship.(which is how I define a chaser) I'm not a cum dumpster just to be humped and dumped.
Someone who respects me enough to do the whole relationship bit isn't a chaser to me. Although I know some people who would disagree with me with my definition.
to most trans people, anyone who wants to fuck a tranny is a chaser. it's stupid. i want to fuck someone because i want to fuck someone, no other reason.
It'd be cute teasing their penises and calling them sissies in a playful manner.
Also, dominating them would feel quite powerful, it might feel as though you're feminising them and maybe you really are.
I'm sure there's a number of reasons. One things for sure, a trap has their charms and can certainly be preferable over girls. Eh, this thread is pretty old, I just felt like saying this.
Looking for some help for taking measurements, what all should i measure for buying panties, bras, chemisole, especially for body shapers, and of course dress and shoe size. Also looking for help with body hair, i tried shaving in a bubble bath after nairing most of the hair off; i used a mens razor. Being hairless was nice while i was in the bath but after that it was pure torture until all my body hair grew back and am half middle eastern so i have a lot of hair.
well the measure for panties and bras depend on you region. i live in europe and sometime travel to UK so i know my german size is 34 and uk i go for 6-8.
for bras, take measurement 1.5 inches below you nipple. (i am assuming you have no breast} if you want cleave just reduce the measured length by 3-5 cms. (for bras)
For panties i normally buy two with one slighly smaller than the one i wear outside (the inner one is for hiding). For the proper measurement for panties, once go around your hip and once around you butt and then take your choice, i usually go for the hip.
As for shaving, if you are shaving only for those special days or you want hairless body in general? If you want in general, my advice is to use nair for the first day and then use mechanical epilator (silky panasonic is what i prefer) once in every two or three days before bath.
after epilation take bath and use allovera body lotion to calm the rashes. also remember to exfoliate the skin properly while bathing to prevent ingrown hair. This doesnot immediately leave you with a silky smooth skin but over a period of time reduces the thickness and density of hair growth.
I got a tip for anyone in Springfield IL Move the hell away. This is the worst place to find traps
Need parts for time machine. Lightning rods and flux capacitor needed. Just discovered traps and now I am 38 and too damn old to find them lol
Didnt get the time machine but I did meet a trap...I was too damn nervous to do more than smile lol Taking her our on the boat and to dinner on Sat..Perhaps I was to hasty thinking I was too old. So here is my tip...Dont give up on what you want.
Hey guys, I just wanted to ask for some advice.
Over the last few weeks I have discovered the amazing world of traps, and have started fapping to it, although for me it's started some bizarre mental patterns, and I would really appreciate some assistance through this.
I'm not gay, and I've never been interested in guys. I've always found myself to be kind of... pretty, rather than hot, or something like that, and people always called me gay, faggot, etc etc for having long hair and being feminine. I always left it up to just being me. Nowadays I've found that there are people like me around who feel feminine and cute, and really thrive on it.
I've been starting to kind of... enjoy making myself actually look pretty, rather than just be casual and try to be normal. I felt really awkward and nervous but I shaved most of the hair off my body a few days ago and tried some makeup today, and it made me feel really... good in a way. Really worried, but I felt like maybe I can express myself.
I don't know myself anymore, I used to be 100% set on what I liked, wanted, and everything, but suddenly my world has been turned upside down, and I'm trying all these new things.
protip: yer a homobut that doesn't mean you're gay, it just means you're bi, since you seem to like pussy as well.
to answer your other question: cross dress all you want. if you get really good at it, you could try passing off as a woman.
unless you're in some shitty hick town, nobody will care that you like to cross dress. many women even enjoy dressing up their friends/boyfriends.
long story short: make yourself pretty and have fun.
You don't need to be gay to be a cd/trans.
It's confusing at first if you're heterosexual and into crossdressing. The best way I can explain it is that guys are never given the chance to feel pretty in our society, and a lot of guys quite enjoy it if they choose to explore it. It's totally normal.
I've CD'd for like most of my life, experimented with guys a little bit. In my experience the sex was awesome (I dated several TS girls, I <3 dick) but there was literally no attraction on a physical level.
So yeah I went back to dating cis girls, and like two months ago I came out to my current GF who I live with. She knew I had a fetish and she was kind of drilling me about it, but I was so secretive/nervous about telling her that she thought it was something super gross like scat or something. Well I said fuck it one night and came out to her.
At first she was like "well I'm not into crossdressers, but if it makes you happy I'll try it," well that sure lasted long. I shaved the next day and after seeing me dressed up she couldn't keep herself off of me. Like literally. She's more into it than I am. I'm into forced fem and I doubt she even knows what that is, but she's totally making all of my fantasies come true. It's awesome. She gets mad when I don't keep my nails painted. I always have to wear girl clothes around the house, and panties/stockings/etc under my clothes all the time. It's way hotter when the person making you do that isn't consciously aware that it's a fetish.
anybody know what happened to the old #cd, on irc.420chan?
it no longer exists
here is some kate moss for your troubles...
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>>463^ 1000 times.
We contemplate restarting such a community, but will smite it hard if everyone decides "Oh, I'm a girl now so I'll be as dramatic as possible!"
It will never happen on 420chan IRC again and we are KoS there. We shall idle in irc -dot- devhax -dot- com #cd and see what happens.
or you can use your brain and get on http://fuxx.us/irc #tranchan
>>728Did not realize there was a local channel, thank fuck, I hate working.
I have been fapping to girls with dicks for as long as I can remember and it has made me question my sexuality many times.
My question is how would I go about becoming a transgendered female without people knowing about? I feel I have the body to do it. I could get some boobs and I already have a booty. I have a large family and quite a few tattoos that would be recognizable is someone saw it.
If it's impossible, I understand that. I always assume that most traps don't have siblings, so it's easier for them.
Well thats an interesting question. You're asking how to change from male to female without anyone knowing? I hope you understand that to be male or female is to have people know (or think) you are male or female.
You like, want to have the body of a female but continue life normally as a male? Take hormones and Testosterone blockers.
You want to transition but stay male for you family and friends? Take hormoes and testosterone blockers, and live as female, but continue normal interactions with your family and friends as a male.
If you do this I suggest you refrain from inviting family to your home.
I just posted this in the other thread, I hope this helps you too (it's basicly what I'm doing):
a few topics...#1 peurera mifrica, anyone have any experience?
#2 everyone's favorite way of keeping hair gone & skin smoooooth? :D
I tried pueraria mirifica at high doses, it sort of worked. but they're highly toxic and not for long term usage.
I tried it for 3 months, stopped, and became more masculine very rapidly in less then a year's time because I couldn't get on real hormones during that time
so don't do it
Also a crushing depression after I stopped which has been escalating more and more each passing month
I've heard people have great success with Peurera Mifrica, and it has been proven to have some powerful phytoestrogens in it - some almost identical to medicinal ones.
However, you can't use it on it's own and have a great effect.
You have to combine it with Saw Palmetto, Fenugreek, Wild Yam, basicly anything that will kill off all your testerone.
Diet is very important when taking supplements. Avoid red meat, eat high soy diet, eat a balanced diet (but avoid fructose), these are big pills full of highly extracted compounds. Taking too much in one day, or in one month, can make you sick because your liver will suffer.
The trick is to take PM 3 weeks on and 1 week off to give your liver a break. Also GRADUALLY increase your dosage, don't rush into maximum dosages, it won't help you get there any faster. Check out this routine:http://fuxx.us/1rm
I do experiments to try as many things as possible (trends,looks,food,places,sex,etc.)
a lesbian friend of mine told me to try transgender (I'm a guy) basically tryÂ´to go as a close to a straight female as possible (6 months of "feminization" and 6 months of womanhood)
since my sexual preferences are mostly straight she says that I will have to listen to "conditioning" files (which are basically audio files with sugestions on liking men and being femenine)
I'm a little afraid that I won't be able to go back if I try ithas anyone gone full transexual and back without any repercussions?
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Don't listen to these people. They are oversensitive and pathetic, and can't comprehend the situation you're facing.
You're going to transition because you want to try it. Sounds like as good a reason as any, considering how BS most trans reasons sound in a vacuum (think about it).
If you can't detransition (that is, go back to being a man), then what's the problem? If you transition and find you're happier and more comfortable where you are, then haven't you done right by yourself? If not, then detransitioning shouldn't be hard.
If you're worried about commitments you make as a girl that make it hard to detransition, like, say, a job, just plan everything with your eventual detransition in mind.
I have not actually done this before, but I agree with you totally that people should do it. I would do it myself, but I would actually want to stay female.
I just have to make this comment... I wish it only took 6 months for a body to become a woman (Physically not mentally that is... lol) if that were the case I'd be full-time in 2 1/2 months! Though you may be one of the lucky ones who can do that... YMMV
I'm in a similar boat to you OP, basicly, I don't really experience Gender Dysphoria but I'm very aroused and feel very comfortable when I act bi trans and want to transition but not go full-time.
As someone here said, if it feels good why not try it?
I've been crossdressing for years in secret and only now started my herbal feminization treatment. I've become very good at passable crossdressing and this is the first step.
None of my family know or (hopefully) will ever know, they are extremely conservative and religious and I would basicly be an outcast.
The plan is this, the herbal HRT isn't anywhere near as extreme as normal HRT but it does provide breast growth and a more feminine body, as well as other minor feminization features. Curves, and a A/B cup are fairly easy to keep hidden, there are many men who have "male breasts" and they just wear some kind of flattening support or loose shirts, also people won't pay that close attention.
Keep in mind, this will take over a year (up to 2, depending on your age/body/etc.). Make sure to have high exposure to people you DON'T want to know about your transformation, if they are exposed to feminine mannerisms and other body shape changes gradually, they won't think so much of it. It's sudden changes that will shock people.
Hey guys and gals, just got into cross-dressing and want to get some basic clothes.
However, I am more of a bear than a twink, and girl's/women's clothes do not fit me. Even their XL stuff, which is a 16-17 or so, is skin-tight and not to my liking.
I wear a 48-50 chest, 38-40 waist, and 11-12 socks.
Of course, if it's elastic-y it will help.
My question is: what do these sizes translate over to for female sizes, so I can get the proper-sized women's clothing?
Wal-mart, my preferred store, likely will not carry women's sizes in the male equivalent of XL. But if they do, please tell me which size or size number range I should get, based on my above measurements.
Alternatively, my second question is: Is a sex-shop/adult store a good place to find larger-sized women's clothes? I think it would, since they specialize in that sort of thing.
You can't depend on size labels, gotta take your own measurements:
1 just under the armpits2 chest at maximum3 just below your chest4 waist5 hips at desired waistband position6 relative front crotch7 relative back crotch8 trousers inseam9 trousers outseam
You need at least these, I've taken over 40 myself.
I like to buy clothes through eBay, the better sellers include precise measurements. Commercial sites frequently have size charts. Sannas measure every piece of clothing separately.
>>684True, helpful advice. Thanks. I don't really wear "casual" clothing, just undies and socks and stuff. But I will still take measurements into account.
anyone have much experience with prostate massagers? been considering buying an aneros or related item
i have definitely had some extremely powerful orgasms from anal play and i figure this is a way to possibly take it to another level
the above linked seems like a good option, thoughts?
bit too rich for my blood, though they look nice..i went with an aneros, so we will see if i end up with this 'super o' orgasms that ive read about
I purchased the helix and the progasm, well worth the money. Even if you don't Experiance the "super O" theyre fantastic toys.
i bought the progasm and it blew my mind
first few times i used it i didnt really get any sensation but with practise it can be really intense
last time i used it i was dripping everywhere and going light headed and just completly loosing myself. Took about a month and a bit of trial and error but well worth it
This is a little long, but the backstory helps.
I haven't crossdressed in about 1.5 years, and I pretty much won't be able to for another 1 1/2, once I get my own place though (without a roommate obviously), probably will all the time. Only in the winter though, because when I crossdress I fully commit and I shave all my body hair, and that would be embarrassing if I did that during the summer.
Anyway, I have a decent collection of clothing right now, but I feel like I should start ordering more, but I really can't because I need to save $$, plus there's a risk of someone seeing the package contents.
So I'm gonna have to wait a while before I order more stuff. However I am worried - there are some really nice things I run into online, and I'm worried the items will be gone in a couple years when I wanna order them. :(
I don't have a lot of experience with buying clothes, but is it hard to find clothes that are years old (pantyhose, corsets, dresses, heels, etc)
>>668There will always be pretty desirable clothing on the web for sale. Always.
Trust that the internet will have something equally nice in two years, because it will. What you want right now may not be available but I assure you it won't be difficult to find something you do want.
To address your actual question, some stores stock seasonally, so you can depend on them restocking this season. But, depending on what store you're looking at the things may still be available.
Stores that cater to transsexuals (which you could possibly be looking at) tend to not restock because their products are niche and don't stay with fashion. Same with other stores that pride themselves on one thing (for example, a corset store or a panty store). These stores will continually stock in a single product, and should always have what you want.
The only stores you really have to worry about are the ones that hold a general supply of fashion, because they tend to have a seasonal stock that changes as the weather does.
Alright, Im kind of nervous but I want to start Cross dressing for my own enjoyment. Not for public. I just need some tips to get started. I can get ahold of panties, stockings, but no bras/girly outfits. AIve always enjoyed shemales/traps (being able to watch multiple videos and bring precum with no stimulation) So please, tips? Really appreciate it.
What kind of tips do you need? A lot of it comes with experience imo, especially getting the right aesthetics (that includes stuff like shaving hair)
Hey everyone, I been on hormones for nearly 7 months now and I haven't notice much growth in my head hair. I was wondering if anyone know of anyway I can encourge my hair to grow?
i am feeling in mood for replying a lot on tranchan today.
What kind of blockers and mones are you on?
If there is no appreciable hair growth then ask you endo to provide you with some dutastride or finastreride supplement, these would prevent hair loss. If need be, you can pester for rogaine. Though i have to say, regaining hair loss is a lost cause, you might gain only a fraction of what is lost even after a year on strict medication regime.
My Hormone blocker is Spironolactone and my hormone is Progynova. I know i'm facing a losing battle and the only way I get my hair back is thorough surgery. But the since I can't afford a hair transplant atmo and regrowing what I can will bring the cost of the transplant down. I'm also trying to get the hair I have left to grow longer. Thanks a lot for replying
girl, you are not alone in this. this is something most girls face, if you can't afford hair transplant get some extensions and avoid sweep back hairstyles. try to have it with bangs from the forehead to the side, it would cover most of the receding hairstyle. it's a common trick.
Hi! I'm new to the site, and haven't found a thread for this, so I thought I'd ask: what makeup, fashion, etc tips would you give to an aspiring trap of color? I've found little to any info on the subject and was COMPLETELY shunned when I made a trip to Sephora.
TL,DR Black Trap Tips
i hear the MAC stores/counters in department stores are great with tips for anyone who wants to learn.
Sistah, i hear you, Been having the same difficult with getting mine done. Went full time for half year without any makeup.
here is what i do these days:
For evening make-up foundation : I go with maC
for day: bobby brown or estee lauder. (estee lauder, a bit darker shade the skin tone conceals all those stubby hairgrowth well enough).
For eyeliners, i would go with black on top and blue crayon liners for lower.
hope this helps
Pic = after learning how to use makeup.
Well, I posted over on CD and was told I was 'not up to par'
Does anyone have any tips at all? I know I need to lose a lot of weight, and I am, slowly. As for hormones, I'm not entirely sure it's what I want, and I'm not sure they would actually do much with my frame. Anyway thanks for any help you can give.
Unless this gets deleted as well -_-;;
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>>566Much better!You're holding yourself a lot better and that's good and it does look like you've lost weight so well done :D
Normally I'd advise against halternecks as they accentuate your shoulders and given our biological genders, we normally have quite broad shoulders and narrow hips. To be fair though your shoulders don't look too imposing in these pictures, but as a rule of thumb - avoid halter necks and spagetti straps and opt for things that cover your shoulders, like wrap around tops. If you look at that dress, it has a flared skirt which will make your hips seem bigger - so well done on that front :)
Make-up wise, you need some practice (I'm rubbish at make-up too, but this much I've worked out). Unfortunately for you, you have quite a masculine jawline, but this can be fixed with good use of contouring powders.Here is a video of a full time transwoman with a similar face shape to you, hopefully it'll help: http://fuxx.us/1g- . Also, good job not using that black lipstick again. As cool as black lipstick is, it's one of those things that really works on some girls and really not on others.
Some make-up practice :)
dresses suck. honesty you can improve appearance by staying away from almost all of them. even when they're color block the colors are flipped against you. even if you wear a dress match it with a top to get the light/dark mix to make hips bigger and shoulders smaller.
the halter top, i agree, does not work. the skirt of the dress is fine. you need to find some unique tops to hide shoulders. i see girls in dolman sleeve tops almost all the time and those might work for you.