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hi, i'll get into it quick.if i came out as trans, even my most accepting liberal friends and family would never speak to me again, and my fear is that finding accepting people (which should be easy in portland) is going to be made complex by my bones.
what i mean by that is that i have broad shoulders, am well over six feet tall, and am all-around built more like Conan the Barbarian than i am Xena warrior princess. i wanna know if my bone structure is an insurmountable issue that will ultimately cause me to end up looking like some kind of monster, or if there's hope of becoming a passable, maybe even kinda sorta beautiful girl.
pic related: it's the fear that keeps me up most nights.
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Devi Ever(google her) is a guitar effect maker in Portland who is pretty well known and is trans.So don't assume there aren't any :D
By the way, I'm not a big fan of the width of my shoulders either, but I've found that if I wear my hair with a little volume it makes them a little less noticeable.
Comes down to your happiness. Will you ever be happy as a man? Can you live like that? For me the answer was no, so despite male features I spent time working my way into femininity, and believe me it takes some serious effort to fight the inertia one faces at every corner when there is a new issue to defeat.
The suggestion that you study women is spot on though! I started doing this early in my transistion and it made me -WAY- more comfortable. I mean, everyone has "feminine" or "masculine" traits, and in the end you realise it's more about general behaviour and how you dress, what you do with your hair etc. than other factors.
That's not to say heavilly masculine traits will magically be feminine, But unless they're blatantly male, own the issue and just go with it.
So... What could I do to look more feminine?
Thin, great nipples, nice hait, long thin fingers off to a great start. Keep your body smooth, you need some nice panites and take it from there.
grow some boobs
Hello everyone another noob here. I've been trying out crossdressing mostly for fun. But now I've realized I really like it and my roommates are serious homophobes I don't have the money to move out. And I lack support of other CD's in the area because I'm afraid to come out. That and I don't look like a girl.I have no help outside of the internet. So does anyone have any advice for being a better CD?
Get new, CD-friendly roommates.
The roommates are a big problem. You need accepting people that you can get feedback from. Otherwise you are bootstrapping, which is much harder to get to a point where you feel comfortable. (The fears of getting caught don't do you any good either.)
That said, what specifically do you want help with? Dressing? Makeup? Voice?
Hi guys, newbie here.
I feel like I definitely want to begin my transformation after all this time.I was hoping to get some information about what the process is like in obtaining hormones.
Where can I go? How much do they cost? Etc.
Umm also, what do you guys recommend for hair removal?
As you can see my legs are pretty gross :(
Soo yeah, I'm 19 y/o and going to college. I haven't told anyone about transitioning yet and am pretty nervous. Any additional tips/advice would be much appreciated.
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There are many videos on Youtube. karmatic1110 and candiFLA had some of the earlier tutorials posted, though they don't really give you the full picture. Forlorn79 has a demonstrating some of the vocal exercises that you would do with a voice therapist.
The various tapes, DVDs, etc are only marginally better than what's free on Youtube and I wouldn't spend money on them. If you are going to spend money, you are better off finding a voice therapist that other transgendered individuals in your area recommend.
I know it's possible to find a copy of "Finding your female voice" on filesharing websites. The vocal exercise stuff from that may be helpful, but it's not particularly well explained why you are doing some of the things. The mantra stuff is mostly silly.
Just found it on isohunt, but no seeders :(
Wait.. got a few :D
so im a new cd, i reaaly love it and i would love to be able to go public, but i have a great problem, i have the body of a macho man, hard muscles and hair, mostly becouse of my job. so i was wondering what could i do to have a more feminine body without going too far, i only like to cd. does pueraria mirifica do what i want? is there an herb or pill i can take??
pic relatedits what im aiming for
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man she needs to make more material before she gets too old :p
>>282 She's still putting up material on xhamster. User name is natalie_loves_cum.
Seriously... if you want your body to look more feminine, get a different job and do yoga (stretching) instead of working out.
Makeup and style and stuff is much faster to get good at, but the muscles and flexibility take a long time.
Supplements may make a minor difference, but it's like a 1% difference when you want a 40% change: sure you can take stuff, but it won't really do what you want. If you want to take something for big changes (like the photo you posted) get prescriptions for hormones. (Yes, see a doctor, it's safer.)
Thread for trans partners?
Thread for trans partners.
Namely: why can I never get my pronouns right?
People in a relationship with a transgender, yet not transgender themselves.
I'm not in a relationship per se, but I'm cuddle buddies with a trans person ^^
I call her by her preferred pronoun, because that's what she wants and I respect her decision.
Thanks for starting the thread, this is always helpful.
We can't say why you're getting the wrong pronouns... you'll be the only one to figure that out. But pronouns and gender are built into the language and culture very deeply and sometimes it takes a lot of effort to "control" them.
I s'pose some questions for you that might help are "Do you see your SO as only of the wrong gender?" or how about, "Do you have a problem dating someone of the right gender?"
(Again, I don't know the answer to your question, just digging up a couple of things to start thinking on...)
Hey, I really want to become a trap. I'm 16 and I've been wanting to do it for about a year now. I'm looking for any help that can help me look more feminine (without hormones). Links, guides (ect), would be great! I'm new to all of this stuff so go easy on me. ^_^;
You proceed to bend over and let me treat you like a woman.
Not very helpful. -_-
There's a long thread on page 2 by "Yourtrainer" about diet and training to get a more feminine body. As for makeup, hair, clothes etc., I would try looking for tutorials on Youtube. There are a ton of those there.
Where can I get those overknees
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nope, no problem posting urls.
I second SockDreams. My friend works there, it's a great company, and they sell really nice socks and stockings.
Hypothetically, how could one reduce the size of compact bone (without penetrating the skin) and in which areas of their body? (if it's fractured, it tends to get a little larger - a method used to make bones stronger - but of curiosity in particular for this, is of whether applying some restraint to the fractured area would prevent new bone from overlapping the original area)
So yeah, this is a thread to discuss how compact bone could potentially be re-shaped and by what means (with the exception that it must be re-molded without the skin being penetrated).
What exercises can I do to give me a more feminine body?(i.e. waist,hips,butt)
I've just found this site for different and socially unacceptable stuff and they seem to have the best MtF crossdressing guide ever. It even has a pictured guide on tucking and padding a bra (and it's from a proper teenage trap unlike some ugly old man on other sites) and basically anything I could possibly need along with really helpful videos on voice and body hair. I hope posting this helps out everyone else who traps or crossdresses as much as it did for me. :3
If anyone wants the link it's on the home page of http://fuxx.us/trapguide
First thing I see when i go there is a girl in nazi uniform, yeah thats gonna encourage me to respect the person that operates the site ... NOT
>>261 omg no not anime character avatars
Well I have the long hair... whats a good place to buy clothes online?
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I take no offence, I know my hair looks shitty. I wear a trucker hat about 90% of the waking day, and I hate dealing with my hair wet so I don't even wash it that often. I know its gross, but I just don't care.
You need to cut the lower part of your hair and start caring about it, If all girls do it you should too.
>>254Not all girls trim their hair to a hemline. It's just easier to do that than to play 'hunt the split ends' with a more naturally-ending taper.
Besides, most girls don't really know how to take care of long hair either. That's why you get girls with that will overwash with harsh shampoos, rake a fine-tooth comb through wet hair ripping out all the knots and tangles, blow-drying it, etc. Sure, it looks decent from a distance, but look at it closely or touch it; it's dry and brittle.
Cutting hair is the last thing you want to do when taking care of long hair. If the OP is serious about their long hair, the Long Hair Community is one of the best places on the web for information on taking care of it.
Some says I am not a real lesbian because I like transgendes, traps and crossdressers :(
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seriously!?id do anything to meet a girl like you!you have aim or skype???
You don't have to put a label on your sexuality, it is what it is. In any case, a label is simply something people apply to other people so they can neatly fit them inside their own preconceptions and stereotypes.
I think the biggest thing is to not be scared of labels. Especially ones that are so often misunderstood.
Bisexual means attracted to both sexes. I am that. Like you, I'm not attracted to "manly men" at all, but when you get down to it, I am excited by both feminine men, and feminine women, of various genders. That's all. I'm more attracted to people of certain genders.
There shouldn't be anything scary about "bisexual", just like there shouldn't be anything scary about "lesbian", "gay", or "straight".
I've been looking a traps for quite a while now and i want to find one and get into a relationship with him. Any sites or ideas that can increase my chance in finding a trap?
Being more careful with pronouns would be step one.
A Google search would reveal many sites for dating TG individuals. Ex. Craigslist Personals, TS Dating http://fuxx.us/nq, U R Not Alone http://fuxx.us/nr, etc.
I'm a straight man, regular guys do nothing for me. For a few years though I've been getting into trans-women/ cross-dressers and the like. So yeah, a little curious as to if this is a new side of me or just a porn thing. I would like to maybe meet up with someone for a casual thing, but I don't know where to start.
Where would I go to meet up with a cross-dresser or a trans-women? Would approaching her be the same as approaching a vanilla women? Bonus points for San Diego specific info.
I'd suggest Craigslist.http://sandiego.craigslist.org/search/cas/?query=t4m
Where do you get your porn?
Half of what I see on xhamster is girls fucking the guys and the guys sucking the girls. I don't want that. Y'know?
Hell, I'd even be happy to find video of really effeminate guys... It all seems to be butch biker (obviously gay) guys fucking "straight dudes". I know some people like that, but, I can't get into it.
Pic pretty unrelated. Some guy in panties. :|
read the error message you fuckers
shemalestardb dot com is a good one.
I know this isn't some advice thread, but I really hope this will get some attention. If this isn't the right place maybe someone can direct me to one.
So here it is. I am a man, early twenties, and I have come to terms with my sexuality. I am, remarkably, attracted to transwomen. So here is where it begins, please bear with me as this is painful to write.
I am in a comitted and monogamous relationship with a girl. We have been together for nearly four years. I love her, I consider her my best friend. She knows nothing about my struggle with my sexuality.
I have met a girl, and am in a position where I can begin (a discreet) sexual relationship with her. She is beautiful (pic related). Very passable, and quite sexy. I am in the southwest and this is rare to find. But I don't know what to do, I don't know if anyone has had a situation like this.
I can easily provide more information if needed. Just ask. I do appreciate you!
Can you ask for permisson? My gf lets me be fucked by others guys...
>>81 Read this:http://fuxx.us/ln
Why are you with a gg if you are looking for a tgirl? End it and continue your relationship with the tgirl.
I am only posting this here since I could not respond to the new mods thread. PLEASE keep the tip section.
Agreed; very useful. I don't want to go to 420chan.
>>106You hurt cupcake? Get banned about it.
Said post was in regards to contributor/"camwhore" content. Tips will exist as it always has in this site.
There's always been a text board, only now it's not on another domain.
If anyone wants other boards, suggest them.